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Go ahead and complain.

Go for it, I don’t want to hear it at all.

You know the old funny saying, how are you doing today?

The pessimist will always say, you don’t really want to know, do you?

I remember the first time someone said that to me. I looked at them and I said, no, you’re right, I don’t.

And I walked away.

Yeah, I could have asked.

I could have had them vomit their negativity all over me.

That’s always fun. It’s always an enjoyable process to have negativity thrown up all over you.

I want you to ask yourself this question right now, and I want you to be honest with yourself.

We all have goals, right?

We all want to get better at something.

Well, how do we do that, how do we get there?

  1. The first thing is, if you’re going to vent, vent to yourself!
  2. The second thing is, take a look at your patterns. Are you always looking to escape, or get out of something, the minute it gets harder?

I found that complainers violate that second principle.

They’ll send me an e-mail and they’ll complain about why things aren’t working.

Then I’ll offer them a solution, and the solution is always a coaching call or a program.

Or sometimes, just a little bit of wisdom.

And their answer always is: I tried that.

That doesn’t work for me.

That’s like saying, “I tried going to the gym. I don’t have a six pack yet.”

Well, hey genius, it takes a little more fucking work than that. Day in and day out effort,…

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